Episodes

Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Ep 16: How Being Strong Will Cost You an Interview with Ed Owens
Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Ed Owens, Vice President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares his personal journey of grief and the impact of compartmentalizing emotions. He discusses how his military and law enforcement training taught him to suppress emotions and the price he paid for not dealing with his losses. Ed emphasizes the importance of emotional availability and the negative consequences of emotional detachment. He also highlights the cumulative nature of grief and the need to address it to live a fulfilling life. Ed's story serves as a reminder that suppressing emotions can have long-term effects on relationships and overall well-being. In this conversation, Ed and Sandi discuss the importance of letting go of pain and the transformation that comes from releasing it. They explore the fear and resistance that can arise when facing the process of letting go, but emphasize the need to deal with emotional baggage in order to live a full and connected life. Ed shares his personal experience of going through the grief recovery process and the profound changes it brought to his relationship with his son. They also discuss the significance of being present in the moment and the impact it has on one's ability to fulfill their mission and be there for others.

Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Ep 15: Healing After Religious or Spiritual Abuse an Interview with Curtis Reed
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
In this episode, Sandi Derby and Curtis Reed discuss the damage caused by toxic religious environments and the importance of healing. They highlight how these environments can lead to a distorted view of God and the merging of the leader with God. They emphasize the need to separate God from the church and leadership and to focus on personal healing. They also discuss the role of the enemy in attacking churches and the importance of addressing unresolved grief and bitterness. They encourage listeners to let go of pain and embrace their true identity. In this conversation, Curtis Reed and Sandi Derby discuss the importance of healing from church hurt and the need to address the underlying pain and trauma. They emphasize that healing is not just about exposing the problem, but about finding spiritual solutions and healing the heart. They highlight the dangers of carrying unresolved emotional pain and the importance of completing the grief process. They also discuss the need for empowered and healthy communities that allow individuals to discover their gifts and walk in their calling. The conversation concludes with the understanding that healing and empowerment are God's desire for His people.

Wednesday Jul 10, 2024
Ep 14: The Church and Mental Health an Interview with Thomas Staub
Wednesday Jul 10, 2024
Wednesday Jul 10, 2024
In this episode, Sandi Derby interviews Thomas Staub, an 18-year-old who wrote a thesis on how the church mishandles mental health. They discuss the issues of shame-based teachings, the rejection of psychology, and the lack of understanding and support for mental health in churches. Thomas emphasizes the importance of pastors being educated in psychology and connecting with mental health professionals to provide holistic care for congregants. He also shares his aspirations to become a therapist and serve his church in that capacity.
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Wednesday Jul 03, 2024
Ep 13: The Beauty of Self Reflection and Trust an Interview with Cecy Frazier
Wednesday Jul 03, 2024
Wednesday Jul 03, 2024
Cecy Frazier shares her journey from a challenging childhood to finding faith and navigating the complexities of religious communities. She discusses the impact of trauma, the struggle for self-love, and the dynamics of submission and suppression within religious circles. Her story sheds light on the journey of healing and self-discovery. The conversation delves into the themes of healing, forgiveness, self-reflection, and personal responsibility. It emphasizes the power of love and forgiveness in overcoming trauma and building healthy relationships. The journey of healing and self-discovery is highlighted, along with the importance of investing in personal development. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on adult life and the significance of healthy, supportive relationships.

Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Jeff Nobert shares his journey of surrender, healing, and transformation through his experiences of business ownership, ministry involvement, childhood abuse, and marriage. His deep connection with God and the power of surrender are central themes in his story, revealing the transformative nature of faith and trust in God's plan. Jeff shares his journey of marriage, loss, and restoration, emphasizing the impact of waiting on God and trusting in His faithfulness. He discusses the challenges, chaos, and pain he faced, highlighting the transformation and encounter with God in the midst of it all.

Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Ep. 10: The Depths of The Father's Heart an Interview with Jenna Winston
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
In this conversation, Sandi Derby interviews Jenna Winston, a former prophetic deliverance pastor at Bethel, about her journey of healing and freedom. Jenna shares her traumatic childhood, struggles with addiction, and her encounter with Jesus that led to her transformation. She discusses the importance of understanding the Father's heart and the layers of healing that believers often need to go through. The conversation also touches on the topic of satanic ritual abuse (SRA) and the challenges of facing buried trauma. Overall, the conversation highlights the power of God's love and the journey to wholeness. Jenna Winston shares her journey of healing and wholeness, highlighting the importance of experiencing the love and compassion of God. She reflects on her past struggles with addiction and the pressure to perform in ministry, and how she found true healing when she allowed herself to be vulnerable and receive God's love unconditionally. Jenna emphasizes that no one is disqualified from God's love and purpose, and encourages listeners to seek deeper healing and understanding of their own journeys.
Connect with Jenna's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/through-eyes-seer-prophet-getting-real-jenna-winston/id1510811552
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com

Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Ep 9: The Healing Power of God's Love an Interview with Karen Shaver
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Karen Shaver shares her journey of growing up in a dysfunctional home with a mentally ill mother and an abusive father. She discusses the impact of childhood trauma on her relationships and the cycle of abuse she found herself in. Karen describes her desperate search for peace and healing, including her experiences with therapy and her spiritual journey. She highlights the importance of understanding the subconscious influence and the ongoing process of healing and sanctification. Karen Shaver shares her journey of finding love and healing through her faith in God. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and forgiveness in order to move forward. Karen also highlights the role of God's timing and support in her life, as well as the power of unconditional love and healing. She encourages others to seek help and find hope in their own journeys.
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com
To contact Karen: www.theskinconnection.com

Wednesday May 29, 2024
Ep 8: Loving God with All Our Strength an Interview with Dr. David Diehl
Wednesday May 29, 2024
Wednesday May 29, 2024
Dr. David Diehl, a chiropractor, discusses the importance of physical health in fulfilling one's purpose. He emphasizes the mind-body-spirit connection and the need to honor God with our bodies. Dr. Diehl explains the role of the nervous system in overall health and the importance of removing nerve interference through chiropractic care. He highlights the consequences of neglecting physical health and the benefits of adopting healthy lifestyle habits. Additionally, he discusses the battle against spiritual warfare in maintaining physical health and the impact of processed foods on the body's detoxification process. This conversation explores the impact of toxins on health and the importance of nutrition and lifestyle choices in maintaining optimal well-being. It emphasizes the connection between physical and emotional health and the role of faith in the healing process. The chapters cover topics such as the effects of toxins on the body, the presence of toxic additives in food, the importance of nutrition for energy, making gradual changes in diet, the mind-body connection, and taking the first step towards better health.
Connect with Dr. Diehl: https://www.drdiehlchiropractic.com/
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com

Meet Sandi Derby
Sandi is an Author, Speaker, Trainer for the Grief Recovery Institute®, Life Coach and Spiritual Director.
Yet, titles mean little compared to the testimony of Sandi's life. From severe abuse to addiction to believer to healed and on purpose, Sandi's life is a testimony to the power of the Father's heart!
Join Sandi as she shares from her own experiences, along with amazing and inspiring guests that will equip and encourage you to live a life on purpose. No matter your story or season this podcast will bring hope and healing as a reflection of the Father's heart.