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In this deeply personal podcast, Sandi Derby shares her journey of healing and self-discovery after a tumultuous relationship that was marred by past trauma and toxic patterns. She reflects on her struggles with purity, boundaries, and the impact of her past experiences on her present relationships. Sandi recounts the challenges she faced, including stalking and legal battles, ultimately leading to a significant victory in court. Through her testimony, she emphasizes the importance of listening to one's heart, seeking God's guidance, and finding strength in the midst of adversity.
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Thursday Nov 13, 2025
Ep. 79: Unlocking Emotional Wellness: The Power of Self-Assessment
Thursday Nov 13, 2025
Thursday Nov 13, 2025
In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl discuss the importance of emotional wellness and introduce their Emotional Wellness Assessment. They explore how emotions can accumulate over time, likening them to pebbles in a backpack, and emphasize the need to address emotional health for overall well-being. The conversation highlights the connection between emotional and physical health, the significance of understanding one's emotional state, and the benefits of taking the assessment to gain insight into personal emotional wellness.
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Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Ep. 78: He Is Bigger: Understanding God's Heart
Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
In this podcast, Sandi Derby shares her journey of understanding God and healing from past religious experiences. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing God's presence in our lives, even in difficult situations, and encourages listeners to embrace their spiritual journey with compassion and openness. Sandi discusses the significance of community, the challenges of navigating toxic relationships, and the need to break free from rigid systems that limit our understanding of God. Through personal anecdotes and biblical references, she inspires listeners to trust in God's greater plan and to seek a deeper connection with Him.
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Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
Ep. 77: It's Time To Prepare
Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her journey through grief recovery and the importance of preparation in achieving success. She discusses the challenges of building a practice, the significance of having a healthy relationship with money, and the necessity of inner healing. Sandi emphasizes the need to dig ditches in preparation for the blessings God has in store, while also addressing the struggles of self-worth and the importance of community support. She highlights the role of deliverance and sanctification in personal growth, encouraging listeners to recognize their worth and significance in God's plan.
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Thursday Oct 23, 2025
Ep. 76: You Cannot Do This Alone
Thursday Oct 23, 2025
Thursday Oct 23, 2025
In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of emotional turmoil and transformation through faith. She emphasizes the importance of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification and healing, highlighting that believers cannot navigate their spiritual journey alone. The discussion covers the significance of community, the distinction between the gifts and fruits of the Spirit, and the cost of power in both the light and dark realms. Ultimately, Sandi encourages listeners to embrace their journey of healing and to recognize the Holy Spirit as their advocate and guide.
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Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
Ep. 75: It's Time To Get Honest
Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of grief recovery and the importance of being honest with God. She reflects on her experiences at a singles conference, where she learned that intimacy with God is rooted in honesty rather than performance. Sandi emphasizes the need for emotional honesty, lamenting, and the power of David's example in the Psalms. She encourages listeners to confront their pain and be authentic in their relationship with God, highlighting that true healing comes from being real about one's feelings and experiences.
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Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
Ep. 74: From Sin Management To Inner Healing
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the themes of spiritual resistance, the nature of sin, and the importance of emotional honesty in the Christian faith. She discusses how feelings of unease often precede breakthroughs and emphasizes the need for individuals to confront their emotions and be honest with God. Sandi also delves into the concept of sin, highlighting the shift from behavior modification to understanding the heart's posture. She encourages listeners to seek inner healing and to develop a deeper relationship with God, moving beyond mere sin management to a transformative journey of faith.
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Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Ep. 73: Twisted Grace: How The Enemy Twists Grace In Your Life To Get You Off Track
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the importance of maintaining a close relationship with Jesus while navigating the complexities of grace, forgiveness, and the dangers of manipulation from narcissistic individuals. She emphasizes the need for boundaries and the understanding that forgiveness does not mean tolerating harmful behavior. The discussion also touches on the impact of childhood trauma and the necessity of releasing toxic relationships for personal growth and spiritual health.

Meet Sandi Derby
Sandi is an Author, Speaker, Trainer for the Grief Recovery Institute®, Life Coach and Spiritual Director.
Yet, titles mean little compared to the testimony of Sandi's life. From severe abuse to addiction to believer to healed and on purpose, Sandi's life is a testimony to the power of the Father's heart!
Join Sandi as she shares from her own experiences, along with amazing and inspiring guests that will equip and encourage you to live a life on purpose. No matter your story or season this podcast will bring hope and healing as a reflection of the Father's heart.








