Episodes
Wednesday Nov 13, 2024
Ep. 32: Navigating Grief an Interview with Dana Cole
Wednesday Nov 13, 2024
Wednesday Nov 13, 2024
In this conversation, Sandi Derby interviews Dana Cole, a registered social worker and certified grief recovery specialist. They explore Dana's professional journey from child protection to private practice, emphasizing the importance of engagement and understanding grief and loss. Dana shares her personal experiences that shaped her career, the impact of unresolved grief on mental health, and the connection between grief and addiction. The discussion highlights the need for empathy in addressing emotional pain and the significance of recognizing various types of loss. In this conversation, Dana Cole and Sandi Derby explore the complexities of trauma, grief, and addiction, emphasizing the importance of understanding underlying issues rather than merely addressing surface behaviors. They discuss the significance of finding the right support, the impact of childhood experiences on adult coping mechanisms, and the necessity of emotional healing. The dialogue encourages listeners to approach their struggles with curiosity and compassion, fostering a deeper understanding of themselves and their behaviors.
Friday Nov 08, 2024
Ep. 31: Understanding Trauma Bonding with Sandi Derby
Friday Nov 08, 2024
Friday Nov 08, 2024
In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the concept of trauma bonding, its implications, and how it can be weaponized by the enemy. She discusses the essential nature of bonding in human experience, the different types of trauma bonds, and the detrimental effects of unhealthy attachments. Sandi emphasizes the importance of healing from these bonds and the need for a deep connection with Jesus for true restoration.
Wednesday Oct 30, 2024
Wednesday Oct 30, 2024
In this episode, Sandi Derby continues her conversation with Dominic Wickey, who shares his profound journey of growing up in an Amish community marked by trauma, abuse, and cultural silence. Dominic recounts his experiences of childhood abuse, the shame and anger that followed, and the struggles he faced with identity and belonging. The discussion delves into the cultural practices of shunning within the Amish community, the impact of these practices on victims, and the lack of support for those who suffer in silence. Ultimately, Dominic reflects on his search for authenticity and faith, highlighting the transformative power of forgiveness and the presence of God's hand in his life despite the challenges he faced. In this conversation, Dominic and Sandi explore themes of divine intervention, spiritual battles, and the journey of healing from trauma. They discuss the impact of leaving legalistic systems, the tactics of the enemy, and the importance of understanding the difference between conviction and condemnation. Dominic shares personal experiences of overcoming an orphan spirit and the significance of trusting God amidst pain and challenges. The conversation emphasizes the need for a genuine relationship with God and the transformative power of healing.
Wednesday Oct 23, 2024
Ep. 29: Transforming Grief Into Empowerment an Interview with Mishka Murad
Wednesday Oct 23, 2024
Wednesday Oct 23, 2024
In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby interviews Mishka Murad, a certified grief recovery method specialist, who shares her inspiring journey from growing up in Pakistan to working with students in the U.S. Mishka discusses the impact of losing her mother at a young age, the cultural challenges she faced, and how these experiences shaped her identity. She emphasizes the importance of emotional health, the challenges of navigating grief, and the transformative power of the grief recovery method. Mishka also reflects on her personal growth, the effects of COVID-19 on student mental health, and the significance of holding space for others in their grief.
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Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
Ep. 28: Thriving After Loss an Interview with JoBeth Evans
Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby interviews JoBeth Evans, a Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist. JoBeth shares her personal journey through grief after the loss of her husband to brain cancer, discussing the profound impact of grief on her life and the lives of those around her. She emphasizes the importance of community support, the concept of secondary losses, and the transformative power of the grief recovery method. JoBeth also highlights her work with individuals struggling with grief and addiction, illustrating the deep connections between unresolved grief and substance use. Throughout the conversation, themes of hope, authenticity, and the necessity of addressing emotional pain are explored, encouraging listeners to embrace their own healing journeys.
Wednesday Oct 09, 2024
Ep. 27: Breaking Free from Amish Control an interview with Dominic Wickey
Wednesday Oct 09, 2024
Wednesday Oct 09, 2024
In this episode, Sandi Derby interviews Dominic Wickey, who shares his profound journey from growing up in an Amish community to finding healing and freedom in his faith. Dominic discusses the challenges of growing up in a controlled environment where he felt voiceless and neglected. He reflects on the impact of shame, classism, and the concept of shunning within the Amish culture. As he navigates his struggles with substance abuse and a condemning view of God, he ultimately finds liberation through a personal relationship with Jesus. Dominic's testimony highlights the ongoing journey of healing, the importance of breaking free from religious mindsets, and the grace of God in times of crisis.
Wednesday Oct 02, 2024
Ep. 26: Surrendering to God's Call an Interview with Andrew Aggrey
Wednesday Oct 02, 2024
Wednesday Oct 02, 2024
In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby interviews Andrew Aggrey, a powerful man of God who shares his transformative journey from a life of anxiety and partying to a deep relationship with Jesus. Andrew discusses his early life in a Pentecostal home, the struggles he faced with anxiety, and his eventual surrender to Christ. He recounts supernatural encounters that shaped his faith and emphasizes the importance of obedience and preparation for the challenges ahead. The conversation highlights the need for believers to step into their God-given authority and influence, especially in times of spiritual warfare.
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Wednesday Sep 25, 2024
Ep. 25: Understanding the Relationship Between Grief and Faith with Sandi Derby
Wednesday Sep 25, 2024
Wednesday Sep 25, 2024
In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby explores the often misunderstood relationship between grief and faith. She emphasizes that grieving is a God-given process essential for navigating life's losses and that it is a misconception that faith requires the absence of emotional responses. Sandi discusses the importance of community in the grieving process, the dual reality of faith and feelings, and the urgent need for believers to acknowledge and process their pain to avoid unresolved grief.
Meet Sandi Derby
Sandi is an Author, Speaker, Trainer for the Grief Recovery Institute®, Life Coach and Spiritual Director.
Yet, titles mean little compared to the testimony of Sandi's life. From severe abuse to addiction to believer to healed and on purpose, Sandi's life is a testimony to the power of the Father's heart!
Join Sandi as she shares from her own experiences, along with amazing and inspiring guests that will equip and encourage you to live a life on purpose. No matter your story or season this podcast will bring hope and healing as a reflection of the Father's heart.